
A shining quality of manhood is sacrifice.
It is not about you being served. It is about you being a servant of God.
You priests pour yourselves out for those entrusted to your care.
You husbands, if you are worthy of such a title, are living out a life of
sacrifice for your wife and children.
You teens take note - I do not know what example you've been given,
but either way you can learn. If your biological father does not know how to BE a father, you can still learn what not to do.
I think of my own dad holding down two jobs while taking evening college courses.
Oh, and did I mention that at the same time, this father of 12 children was virtually rebuilding our
house from the inside - electric, plumbing, drywall... AND still he had time to lull us to sleep playing piano
as we drifted off to dreamland? Good job Dad.
And I whine at times because our little family seems to be on a merry-go-round as we travel
the country to wake sleepy catholics.
I'm thankful for the example and am sorry for those of you who did not have a father to learn this from.
Sacrifice is part of authentic manhood. Get used to it. Be open to it. Don't shy away from hardship.
At the same time watch out that you don't become a work-a-holic as it tends to make you unapproachable - and your so called 'work' may be an excuse to get out of fathering.
Mentoring, listening, praying, encouraging, challenging, guiding, teaching, correcting... a man is called to be many things, do many things, and endure many things for the sake of his children.